Rivnitz - Rabbi Shalom Landau on Instagram‎: "Stop calling your spouse your partner. You didn’t sign a business contract. You built a life. The moment you start counting, “Who did more?” “What’s fair?” You invite ego into the holiest space. Marriage isn’t about equality. It’s about complementarity. Two people bringing different strengths, different roles, different energies... to form one whole. That’s why the Torah calls a wife עזר כנגדו not an equal shareholder, but the necessary opposite that